The definition for the word “shelter” is “something that covers or affords protection”. When it is raining outside we seek shelter. We make shelters for our cats and dogs outside so they can stay safe and warm. A “shelter” is a place for homeless people to find refuge from the elements and receive a nourishing meal. So when did the word “shelter” become a bad thing? Why are homeschooling parents accused of sheltering their children as if that were bad? Isn’t it a good thing to keep your child out of harms way? I believe it is our responsibility as parents to keep our children safe, secure and yes – sheltered! Or should we leave our children out in the elements to fend for themselves, don’t take any precautions to ensure their safety? I am pretty sure that all parents shelter their children in some fashion – we shelter them from the hot stove, burning bath water, falling down the steps, stormy weather, burning sun, mean people, ignorant attitudes, and much more. We may not agree with what other parents shelter their kids from – diversity, traveling, choices, opportunities, etc. Shelter is not a bad word, and as homeschooling parents it is a good thing that we choose to shelter our kids from such things as bullys at school, poor education, peer pressure, institutionalized education, narrow peer groups, lack of diversity, drugs, and gangs. I guess the difference is that I do not ask people why they do not shelter their children because I believe that every parent has the right to make the choices they feel best for their child. It is not for me to judge if the choices are right or wrong. Which also affords me the right to make the choices I see fit for my children. Our family is our children’s closest form of reference, they will base many of their beliefs, attitudes and choices from what they have learned from us – and rightfully so. All parents have this same ability to create this frame of reference. That is why many children attend the same colleges, churches and events that perhaps their parents did, it is only natural. And as a parent, we know what is best for our children, we know them best, have their best interest at heart – so it makes sense that we shelter them as we see fit. And if that means homeschooling our children, that is our right to do so.

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