Homeschooling is a big decision, one that each family has to consider thoroughly. But once you have made the decision, what about your extended families’ opinions? It is common for homeschoolers to have family members who do not approve, support or care for their choice to homeschool.

How do you handle this? Well, most of us handle it very carefully. There are probably many choices you make in life that your in-laws or own parents do not agree with, but you are the parents now, and it is your choice how to educate your children.

Actually public education is relatively new to this country. Most of our founding fathers were homeschooled, and they created this wonderful country called the United States. Today homeschooling is perfectly legal in every state of the US, and you simply are exercising your right to do so. But, it is best not to get into a defensive mode, especially when your children are around. You do not owe anyone an explanation for what you are doing, they are your children. Stick to your decision, be firm, kind and straight to the point. You may kindly remind people that this is your choice and you are doing what you see as best for your child.

Having family members, friends or associates who do not support your decision to homeschool just underlines the importance of befriending other homeschooling families. Be diligent about creating a network of homeschoolers that you feel comfortable spending time with. You want to give your children a feeling of belonging and a sense of community – this is very important to your success in homeschooling.

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